My wife doesnt want to have sex

H ave you been getting the feeling that your wife is not attracted to you? In fact, on that topic, I recently wrote an article about when women get mixed up in an affair of the heart. Take a look…. Usually when men talk to me about these matters they are eager for a resolution. What also matters is the nature of the problem between the couple.

Research suggests that sexual satisfaction plays a pivotal role in healthy relationships according to research, but there are a number of factors that can influence the quality of a couple's sex life as well as individual sexual desire over the course of a relationship. It may a short-term problem related to stress at work or other issues that have driven your partner to distraction. Even more commonly, a sudden, hectic schedule—ranging from end-of-year exams to a do-or-die work deadline—can leave your partner exhausted and uninterested in anything more than sleep or a night in front of the TV. While dry spells like these are common and usually resolve on their own once things stabilize, a prolonged and unexplained disinterest in sex can be harmful to a relationship and the general well-being of both partners. Not only can this stir feelings of frustration and self-doubt but it may also leave you wondering whether this may be your first step toward a sexless marriage.

Menopause and hot flashes have taken my sex life away. My wife is 54 and started menopause at For the past eight years it has been like I am married to my sister.

I feel a need to address both women and men on this matter, because it DOES matter. Both feel very strongly about this part of their marriage. But it also addresses what it is like for the man to be refused. It is a gigantic issue, if your sex life is unfulfilled. He and his wife Lori have a wet site called The Marriage Bed.